Grind 1/4 cup coconut along with water to a paste and set it aside.
To a bowl add 1/4 cup tamarind add 2 cups warm water.
Crush it well.
Once crushed fully strain, press and extract juice and pulp completely.
Heat 2 tablespoon gingelly oil - add around 10 ladies cut into 1 inch long. Fry until it shrinks and is not sticky. Remove and set aside.
Tip to reduce stickiness : Rinse ladies finger well to remove the dirt on the outer skin if any. Wipe off with a cloth to remove moisture. Trim both the edges then cut this way it will be less sticky.
To the same kadai - add 1 teaspoon mustard seeds let it splutter then add 1/2 teaspoon urad dal, 4 small red chilies, 1/4 teaspoon fenugreek seeds, few curry leaves let it splutter.
Add 8 garlic cloves, around 20 small onion saute until golden.
Add 1 big tomato roughly chopped saute until it shrinks, mushy and raw smell leaves.
Now add fried ladies finger along with salt to taste. 1 tablespoon sambar powder, 1 teaspoon red chili powder and 1/4 teaspoon turmeric powder.
Saute for a minute. Do not burn the masala, saute in low flame.
Add tamarind extract
Let the gravy start to boil.
Cook covered for a good 10 minutes.
It will start to thicken.
Add coconut paste to it.
Give a quick mix. Let it boil until oil separates.
Add 1 teaspoon jaggery powder.
Add 1 teaspoon gingelly oil.
Give a quick mix and switch off.
Puli kulambu is ready!