Measure jaggery and add it in a pan, add water and dissolve it well.
Heat it up for 2mins just for the jaggery to get dissolved.Strain to remove impurities.Set aside.
Heat a tbsp of ghee, add cashews and fry until golden,set aside.Now in the same pan add wheat rava and moong dal, roast for 3mins.
Now add water and coconut milk.Cook in low flame.
Cook covered for few mins until the rava gets cooked.Once it is soft, keep cooking until the mixture becomes thick.
When it becomes thick add jaggery syrup and mix well.
Add ghee little by little, and keep cooking until it comes together.
After few mins, it will come together and will become less sticky, at this stage add ghee fried cashews and switch off.